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I’m turning 38 in January and feeling a little about what to do in two areas of my life. I’ve been living in London for 4 years now and as much as I now have a decent balanced lifestyle I keep having feelings of wanting to move home to Ireland. From a work perspective I am currently working part time and that is enough to support me, however not sure what I’d be able to get at home paying the same for short hours, but then if I moved home my outgoings would be so much less that I could get by on very little. I suppose the opportunities are more likely in London for me to develop my career in the area I’d like it to so in some ways that’s what makes me think I should stay. London isn’t where I see myself long term…however I also have to be cautious as I have a habit of doing ‘geographics’ and moving my life around as I can get bored. I know life will be OK if I stay or if I go and know that as soon as I move home I will think the grass is greener somewhere else.
The other area is more to do with relationships and family. Although I’ve never been particularly broody, I come from a large family and have always assumed that having a family would be part of my life. Turning 38 now I have to think realistically that that may not be the case. Again I know my life would not be particularly better or worse for having a child, just vastly different. I would consider doing it on my own and have the attitude that if I used a donor then if it works it works and if it doesn’t it doesn’t. I’d give it one go and let fate decide. I suppose my concern is that I would have liked to meet someone to do this with but I can’t control that and as much as I’d like to have a great relationship I wonder if I need to put that to the side for a bit and try this avenue? Part of me has a niggling doubt that although I am saying I want to leave this up to fate…by trying to do this, am I trying to control the outcomes of my life. Should I just leave it altogether? Sometimes I wonder if I’m perhaps just not meant to be with someone right now as much as I’d love that and that I know I could be a good mother and perhaps the love I seek to give would be more right for me to give a child.
I’ve always found your words to be wise and can easily connect to them so keen to know your thoughts.
October 9, 2015
In regards to staying in London or moving back to Ireland-it doesn’t feel quite the right time to leave London.
I have no doubt that you will re-locate at some stage in the future. For the moment it feels like you haven’t completed all that you are meant to in London. Once those things are complete then you will feel an upsurge of energy that will somehow magically be available when you do decide to move.
You seem a very creative and passionate woman and it feels that what you are ‘meant’ to be doing in regards to career will soon take a huge leap forward. But it requires patience and trust and at this time allowing London to support its development. The business or your new career does feel something that can also be established online, making it easier to live anywhere in the future. Because of your level of sensitivity it is important as you develop your new career to only involve yourself with ethical people; people who genuinely come from their hearts and want to make this world a better place for all humanity to thrive in. Keeping this in mind will help you attract exactly the right people into your life who can guide you on your path and support you once established.
If you have more career questions then don’t hesitate to ask.
To answer your second question, I am surprised that you haven’t met your special someone already. This suggests to me, he is close by and more time needs to pass before you meet him. And very possibly an emotional issue is armoring your heart from allowing love into your life. Although there are some issues pertaining to love, as you are journeying through life with awareness it won’t take much to shift those last fragments of old beliefs and behaviors.
Seek professional support if you feel you require it, but in the mean time remind yourself daily that you are worthy of love, intimacy and being completely at ease with another- (an important one to focus on.)
In regards to having a baby, I would definitely advise to put that in motion, I am not sure what is involved in London with the donor process but in Australia it takes quite some time to organize.
The reason I am suggesting this is if you wait too long, then your choice to have a child maybe taken from you. If you do not pursue the donor path, at least have some eggs frozen just in case. It is definitely not controlling your fate. We all co-create our reality and its good to acknowledge that you are being responsible by taking action to reserve your right to have a child in the future.
Taking action will also open you energetically to either choosing the best father via a donor or the best man who genuinely wants children to enter into your life. And yes you will make a fantastic mother should you chose to have a child. Coincidently its not just practicality prompting you to think about the best course of action to take in regards to having a child, psychically I can see the ‘soul’ of a child hovering close to you. The energy of this ‘soul’ is having a powerful affect on your thoughts and feelings, prompting you to think more deeply about your future than you possibly have for some time. And if you chose to have a child, conception would be optimal in about 14-18 months time. (I hope that information is okay?)
In conclusion I think you can have it all; a relationship, a child, and a successful career path doing something you love and are passionate about.
Stay committed to your personal development pathway and everything that you wish to be manifested will come to light as you journey life with an attitude of patience, self-acceptance and an open heart.