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I currently like a man. I am willing to go slow and be patient (which is not how I have handled this in the past). I am trying hard to change my ways. My question is, is this man for me? I very much want him to be. Thank you very much for your time.
March 24, 2015
Thank-you for your question.
Your heart feels so open and ready for love –which is lovely to feel and just a bit exciting.
There comes a time in everyone’s life where we can’t just think about how we should or shouldn’t be in a relationship. We sometimes need to have one, to work out the kinks and face the challenges all relationships present. I feel this relationship offers you the opportunity to have a relationship that is very different than before.
I suggest you continue to be patient and step this potential relationship out cautiously, not because you need to be afraid of this man, but because you need to learn patience.
And I fully support you taking things slowly and not jumping in at the deep end too quickly.
Having said that I also feel both of you have some residual hurt from previous relationships. However because of past hurt it does feel that neither of you want to have a relationship that is the same as the past or end in the same ways. Which is also great that you are on the same wavelength.
Although I can feel you have done a lot of work on repairing your heart from hurt, I would suggest to deepen your understanding about relationships and the challenges you have had to face because of them, doing some inner child work could be very helpful for your healing process.
I highly recommend you read “ Reconciliation: Healing the Inner Child” by Thich Nhat Hanh
I also sense that because of your enormous capacity for love and generosity you need to be cautious about loving too much in any relationship.
Real love is a mutual arrangement and each person needs to be equal in what they give and what they expect from the other. Otherwise it becomes imbalanced, and inevitably one of the people in the relationship will want to have control over the other, which is potentially very painful.
I wish you well in your healing process and also in how you step out this relationship. It does genuinely feel it could be a very different experience than in the past.
The Angels are also saying that soon you will be undergoing a major energy shift in regards to your business. After this shift you will be clearer about your direction and how to create more success, another thing to look forward to.
Don’t worry everything is in accordance with the Divine plan, but it is always good to be prepared for these shifts and the changes that result. The reality is that it can be a little painful when birthing new ideas and potentially new directions. However have faith that when you emerge everything will be more in alignment with your higher potential in relationship to your career pathway.
The art of surrender is also made that much easier when we know what is coming.